Cher Breaks Silence Following the Death of Her Ex-Boyfriend Val Kilmer

The pop icon has shared a personal tribute following the death of actor Val Kilmer, offering a glimpse into their decades-long bond.

On April 2, 2025, Cher publicly acknowledged the death of her former partner, Val Kilmer, in an emotional post on X. The singer, who dated Val in the 1980s, honored the actors memory by highlighting his wit, artistry, and strength throughout his battle with illness. Val, known for roles in “Top Gun” and “The Doors,” died on April 1.

Cher and Val Kilmer during the Bette Midler Video Party on January 9, 1984, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

In her social media post, Cher wrote, “VALUS Will miss u,U Were Funny,crazy,pain in the ass,GREAT FRIEND,kids💜U, BRILLIANT as Mark Twain, BRAVE here during ur sickness [sic].” She affectionately referred to him as “Valus,” a nickname from their time together.

The two developed a deep and lasting friendship after their romantic relationship ended, one that persisted for more than 40 years. In a past interview, Cher expressed deep fondness for many of her former partners, like Sonny Bono and Gregg Allman. But about Val, she admitted, “When we kissed, I thought my head would shoot right off my body.”

Cher and Val Kilmer during the 36th Annual Tony Awards After Party on June 6, 1982, in New York City | Source: Getty Images

Their story began in the early 1980s, when they met at a birthday party hosted by one of Chers friends. Although there was an age gap between them—Val was in his early 20s, and Cher was in her 30s—the pair quickly bonded over their shared sense of humor and creative spirits.

She once said they were just friends at first who laughed constantly, but that soon turned into a romance. In a 2021 People interview, the singer reflected on their unique connection, “Hes like nobody Ive ever known. He is exasperating and hysterical. Thrilling and funny, and doesnt do what anyone else does.”

Cher and Val Kilmer during the BAFTA Awards on March 25, 1984, in London, England | Source: Getty Images

She also explained how the relationship evolved, sharing, “It went from madly in love and laughing hysterically to respecting each others ability.” The two often gave each other playful nicknames, including Sid and Ethel, and later, Valus Maximus and Cherus Reprimandus.

In a 2024 appearance on “The Howard Stern Show,” Cher was asked what kind of man would ever leave her. She responded candidly that a couple of men did, including Val. Like in other interviews, she repeated she was “madly in love” with him, but it didnt last.

When the talk show host pressed further, she explained, “Sometimes youre only meant to stay with someone so long,” adding that Val was very young during their time together.

Still, the singer and the actor maintained a great friendship. She recalled a New Years Eve spent doing art projects with their children, and shared how Val supported her acting, even helping with her screen test for the film “Mask.”

Cher and Val Kilmer during the 55th Annual Academy Awards on April 11, 1983, in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

She was also by his side during his illness, spending time with him at her home and witnessing firsthand the courage he showed while battling serious health issues. The actor had been diagnosed with throat cancer in 2014 and had since recovered, while continuing to create art and sharing his story, like in the documentary “Val.”

Cher finished her 2021 interview by sending him a message, “I love the things that pissed me off, the things that made me hysterical, amazed, hurt, astonished, etc. You are brave and beyond brilliant. Ethel.”

As reported earlier today, Val, the versatile actor known for his roles as Jim Morrison and Batman, has passed away in Los Angeles at the age of 65.

Val Kilmer during an interview in Munich in 1992 | Source: Getty Images

According to his daughter, Mercedes Kilmer, the cause of his death was pneumonia. Val was born on December 31, 1959, in Los Angeles. He grew up in the Chatsworth neighborhood, tucked into the citys far northwest corner.

Val rose to stardom in the 1990s, becoming a leading man with a range that extended beyond blockbuster roles. Among his most iconic appearances was as the Caped Crusader in “Batman Forever” (1995).

Val and Mercedes Kilmer at the 2019 Annual Thespians Go Hollywood Gala on November 18, 2019 | Source: Getty Images

In the film, he faces off against villains Two-Face, played by Tommy Lee Jones, and the Riddler, portrayed by Jim Carrey. While the film achieved commercial success, neither Vals performance nor the movie itself were universally embraced as high points in the Batman legacy.

His off-screen life took a dramatic turn in the years that followed. In 2017, during a rare interview at his Brentwood art studio, Val sat beside his two children, Mercedes and Jack, both born during his marriage to British actress Joanne Whalley.

Val Kilmer at Simply Shakespeares Live Read of “The Merchant Of Venice” in 2019 | Source: Getty Images

At the time, he was in the midst of a grueling fight with throat cancer. A tracheotomy had left his voice a harsh rasp, and his breathing labored. The struggle was made even more difficult by a personal crisis.

Around the time of his diagnosis, Mercedes was struck by a car in a serious accident. “We were in the same hospital at the same time,” she later recalled. Jack, watching both his sister and father endure medical recoveries, remembered the moment vividly. “I was just, you know, miserable, distraught, sitting next to these two.”

Mercedes Kilmer and Jack Kilmer attend the Premiere of Amazon Studios “VAL” at DGA Theater Complex on August 03, 2021 in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Despite the hardship, Val leaned on faith. As a Christian Scientist, he found spiritual grounding through his illness, though he also underwent chemotherapy in his battle against the disease. Through it all, his relationship with his children deepened.

By 2020, Val made a quiet but determined return to the screen. He starred in “Paydirt,” an indie action film in which he portrayed a sheriff — a role that mirrored his real-life condition. His character, like him, had a speech disability.

“Its pretty historic to have a lead with a speech disability,” Mercedes, who co-starred in the film, told People at the time. She called the experience a revelation, both professionally and personally.

“My dad’s able to very artfully circumvent the limitations of his speech,” she said. Mercedes explained that watching how he communicated physically had taught her a great deal about acting and had expanded her understanding of what acting could be.

Mercedes Kilmer at “Val” photocall during the 74th annual Cannes Film Festival on July 7, 2021, in France. | Source: Getty Images

Val, never one to shy away from change, took the shift in stride. “The business changes every six months,” he joked. “The Batmobile has become much smarter since then.”

The project became more than a film, it became a symbol of resilience. “The health challenges have been just that, challenging,” Mercedes said, “but so many good things have come out of it.” Val echoed the sentiment. “They really have done everything to make my health as usual,” he said.

In another joint interview with Mercedes, when Val was asked how he was doing, he replied in a coarse and strenuous voice, “Im doing great, I feel a lot better than I sound.”

Though his voice was altered, his creative spirit remained intact right to the end.

His final public moments reflected the artist he had always been. On March 23, Val posted an image of his latest artwork, a glowing visual piece accompanied by the caption, “Its got that late-night glow. Cool tones with a low burn, like when the camp fire cools down but you’re still wide awake.”

In June 2019, Val took to social media to reflect on his lifelong mission as an artist. He shared a series of photos alongside a message expressing his belief in the power of art to educate and inspire.

For him, acting was never just about performance; it was about finding truth in every character and sharing that truth with audiences. He spoke about bringing that same passion to his work with the TwainMania Foundation, an initiative aimed at promoting empathy, literacy, and tolerance through education.

Val, along with other collaborators, had been working to develop a curriculum rooted in those values. He hoped the program could take root in Los Angeles and eventually expand nationwide.

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The post also served as a thank-you to friends and supporters who had stood by him and the cause. He encouraged others to join the effort, emphasizing the potential of education to shape a more compassionate future.

Throughout his career, Val built a diverse filmography that showcased his range and charisma. Early on, his striking looks and commanding presence often landed him roles with a rock-star edge — including his debut in “Top Secret!” (1984), where he played a singing American caught up in Cold War chaos.

Val Kilmer in 1988 in Los Angeles, California | Photo: Getty Images

In “The Doors” (1991), Val delivered one of his most memorable performances, fully inhabiting the role of Jim Morrison with a hypnotic intensity. Just two years later, he made a brief but memorable appearance in “True Romance.”

He took on leading roles in films like “Thunderheart “(1992), portraying a young FBI agent on a Native American reservation, and “The Saint “(1997), where he played a master of disguise entangled with the Russian mob.

Val Kilmer during a photoshoot in Los Angeles in 1986. | Source: Getty Images

In “Tombstone” (1993), Val stood out, earning praise alongside a cast that included Kurt Russell and Sam Elliott. He joined forces with Robert De Niro and Al Pacino in the crime thriller “Heat” (1995), playing a member of a high-stakes robbery crew.

Other notable appearances included “The Ghost and the Darkness” (1996) and “Pollock” (2000). In Oliver Stones “Alexander” (2004), Val took on the role of Philip of Macedon, father to the future conqueror.

Val Kilmer at the United Nations headquarters on July 20, 2019 | Source: Getty Images

Throughout his film journey, Val became known, not just for his roles, but for his ability to disappear into them — unpredictable, committed, and always compelling. His career was marked by bold choices and layered performances.

His dedication to craft, even in the face of personal trials, left a lasting imprint on film. He leaves behind a legacy of fearless artistry and unforgettable performances. Our condolences go to his family. Rest in peace, Val Kilmer.

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